Self-accelerating optical Airy beams present attractive characteristics such as self-bending and non-diffraction, which have rendered this field a research hotspot in recent years. In this paper, the desired phase changes of the unit cell structure for the transmitted cross-polarized wave can be realized by modifying the rotation angle of the unit cell, while the amplitude can be modulated by changing the inner diameter R of the double layer split-ring resonator (SRR). As such, the amplitude and phase modulations can be performed simultaneously and independently to achieve the desired transmitted wave envelope. Furthermore, a novel, to the best of our knowledge, strategy of 2D Airy beam deflection control is also presented by simultaneously modifying the phase and amplitude of the envelope of the transmitted beam, and its feasibility is theoretically and experimentally demonstrated. Our proposed designs suggest high application potentials in the fields of optical particle manipulation, controllable wireless energy transmission, and complex terrain exploration.